Monday, February 18, 2013

Crying out for help but no one listens


This article is about Jamey Rodemeyer a 14 year old  who committed suicide due to bullying in school. He wrote a post on Facebook thanking lady Gaga before he killed himself. Jamey would blog about how he was being bullied in school and wanted to kill himself. He wanted to create a voice for himself and be heard. Unfortunately no one listened and instead he became a victim of cyber-bullying. This careless attitude toward Jamey and the constant insults of being gay drove him to commit suicide. 

 http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2039801/Bullied-gay-teen-Jamey-Rodemeyer-commits-suicide-Thanks-Lady-Gaga-post.html

'What do I have to do for people to listen?' Boy, 14, kills himself after 'gay' taunts and thanks Lady Gaga in his final post

By RACHEL QUIGLEY

A 14-year-old boy who blogged about being suicidal due to being incessantly bullied at school has been found dead outside his home in an apparent suicide.
Jamey Rodemeyer, from Buffalo, New York, cried for help online for months before his death and his family and friends said suicide was a popular topic with him.
He regularly posted about being bullied at school and how people would launch gay insults at him.
Tragic: Jamey Rodemeyer, 14, from Buffalo took his own life after being taunted at school for being gay
Tragic: Jamey Rodemeyer, 14, from Buffalo took his own life after being taunted at school for being gay
But what was worse for Jamey, was that when he wrote of his pain and frustrations and cried for help in his blog postings, students at his school started to bully him online.
About 12 months ago on his Formspring account - which permits anonymous posts - other students started making gay references towards him.
'JAMIE IS STUPID, GAY, FAT ANND UGLY. HE MUST DIE!' read one post.
Another read: 'I wouldn't care if you died. No one would. So just do it :) It would make everyone WAY more happier!'
On September 9, Jamey wrote on his Tumblr site: 'I always say how bullied I am, but no one listens. What do I have to do so people will listen to me?'

The day before he wrote: 'No one in my school cares about preventing suicide, while you're the ones calling me [gay slur] and tearing me down.'
He put up a separate post that day letting everyone know it was National Suicide Prevention Week.
But still no one listened. 
Fan: Jamey loved Lady Gaga and left a thank you to her as one of his last postings before he died
Fan: Jamey loved Lady Gaga and left a thank you to her as one of his last postings before he died
Scene: Jamey is the second student at Williamsville North High School to commit suicide in the last two years
Scene: Jamey is the second student at Williamsville North High School to commit suicide in the last two years
On Saturday night he posted a lyric from Lady Gaga's song The Queen on his Facebook page which said: 'Don't forget me when I come crying to heaven's door.'
On 1.30am on Sunday morning, he left two final messages on one of his blogs saying he was looking forward to seeing his great grandmother, who recently died, and one as a tribute to Lady Gaga, thanking her.

'He was the sweetest, kindest kid you'd ever know. He would give all his heart to you before he gave any to himself'

His mother Tracy Rodemeyer , told Buffalo News: 'He touched so many hearts, so many people. I didn't realize how many people he touched. 
'He was the sweetest, kindest kid you'd ever know. He would give all his heart to you before he gave any to himself.'
She said that her son had been questioning his sexuality over the last year and that his fellow students picked up on it and used it to taunt and bully him.
Warning: Jamey's Facebook post citing Lady Gaga lyrics
Warning: Jamey's Facebook post citing Lady Gaga lyrics
Friends of the 14-year-old reported the message posts to the school guidance counsellors, she said, but by then it may already have been too late.
'He was totally against bullying. He has had issues since fifth grade. He had suicidal tendencies back then,' she told Buffalo News.
Dead: Joe Chearmonte also committed suicide when he was a student at Williamsville North High School
Dead: Joe Chearmonte also committed suicide when he was a student at Williamsville North High School
She said she tried to talk to him on numerous occasions and asked him to talk to her about what was wrong, but he assured her that he was OK.
Last weekend the family went to a camping spot they would frequently go to and she said he seemed really happy.
Mrs Rodemeyer said: 'He used to cry about the taunts from his peers but they didn't seem to phase him this time. Lately, he's been blowing them off, or at least we thought he was.'
Olivia Rinaldo, an eighth-grader at Heim Middle School, said she was drawn to his outwardly upbeat and extroverted personality. He made friends of the friendless, she said.
'He was always putting people first. He always wanted other people to smile, even on the worst of his days.'
She said even though he was seeing a social worker and a therapist, not enough was done to help him.
A letter was sent home to students on Monday morning informing them that he was dead. 
Dale Bauer, a licensed school social worker and clinical social worker at North, said: 'We make it apparent to the kids that there's help all day long and in the days to come.'
Jamey was a new student at Williamsville North High School and the student known to have committed suicide there since 2010. Joe Chearmonte, a junior honor student, died in February of last year


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Wednesday, February 13, 2013

 This article is called Cyber-bullying linked to spike in depression by Donna St. George. this article talks about hoe cyber bullying is linked to depression, it say that bullying starts in middle school because  that is when kids are beginning to self-defined themselves.
this is the movie that talks about the consequences of cyber bullying. what is done,how other kids cyber bully each other.

Monday, February 11, 2013

Be Aware!

 
Cyber bullying is a common phenomenon that exists on Facebook, twitter, and every social network. The one who cyber bully others should be blamed without a doubt, but is it true that the audience who watch someone being cyber bullied are innocent? I don't think so. We should be aware that if we do nothing about cyber bullying we are actually helping it. There is a guy who is famous for mean commons on the Chinese version of Twitter--Weibo. People @ him and want to be given common about their self-portraits even most of them get mean comments. this guy is a mystery that no one knows his real name, job or background, and he got 3million followers in three months. I don't know since when people are obsessed with him and getting a comment from him is becoming an honor. Even celebrities are following him and social networks approve this kind of behavior. Some people believe this doesn't count for cyber bullying but I totally disagree. Those people who want comment can be victims in real life. And here is why cyberbullying has a broader impact.

Hey! Wake up!

     “Cyberbullying is the use of the Internet, cell phones, or other electronic communication devices to spread harmful or embarrassing information about another person. This information can be in the form of text, photos, or videos” Some people want to attract attention by being cyberbullied, they use it as a tool to sensationalize, but most of them end up with becoming the victims of cyberbullying. People who cyberbully others never realized how much it will hurt. So we have to stop cyberbullying even though some of the victims use it as a tool to attract attention.
Here's a  lady called Feng use cyberbullied as a tool to attract attention.And here is a hilarious post from her “I am absolutely clever than Einstein's, I know that guy, he is the one that invented the light bulb." (Luo Weibo) All of her followers reply evil and harsh comments to her and she has become the most popular "star" on the Internet and has been published in the magazine people. After she became famous she joined a talent show in China. During her performance, there was a guy throwing eggs toward her and insulted her in front of the audiences but she did nothing about that and she said she is happy that she can become famous.
 

 

I found this blog post in stopbullying.gov and its about how the Health Resources and Services Administration is helping the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network by having a No Name Calling Week through school and social media. I find this post very interesting because name calling through social media is what triggers cyber-bullying. This how cyber-bulling starts in the first place when an individual is being attacked by hurtful words through a social network. Then cyber-bullyingcan  lead to actual physical bullying. That is why we should think before we talk because we can be hurting someone with our words. 

HRSA and GLSEN Work Together in Support of No Name Calling Week

No Name Calling WeekThe Health Resources and Services Administration (HRSA) is proud of its long history of working with the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) and other student groups to promote healthy kids and safe schools. These partnerships are a great chance for HRSA to reach youth in their schools and community to prevent bullying. Over the years, HRSA and GLSEN have shared resources and spoken at events. This year, we are continuing that work on social media for GLSEN’s No Name Calling Week.exit disclaimer
From the schoolhouse to the soccer field, everyone has a role in preventing bullying. That’s what No Name Calling Week is all about. HRSA offers free resources that go beyond the classroom to help parents, teachers, business leaders andany member of the community ensure their children grow up in a safe place. Whatever your role, check out our resources before hosting your next community event:
  • Training PowerPoint with Speaker Notes: a presentation with the latest research and talking points.
  • Training PowerPoint: a slide-by-slide presentation to use at a community event, workshop or town hall meeting.
  • Community Action Toolkit: a packet that includes tip sheets, sample agenda, action planning guide and feedback forms.
  • Misdirections Video Packet: a six-minute video that talks about the Do’s and Don’ts in bullying prevention and response.
So whether you’ve been involved in bullying prevention for five years or five minutes: StopBullying.gov has all the materials you need to host a community event. Check them out: http://www.stopbullying.gov/communityguide.

Saturday, February 9, 2013

You can say these are all elements that compose cyber bulling